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Fair warning. This is going to be much longer than a simple paragraph and not your usual ad At least I don't think so. I'm a married woman. Been married to my husband for 17 years and we have a great relationship. Best married couple that we know. I'm not on here looking for someone to have a fling with. Oh no. We, and I mean we, are looking for a bit more. Way back in the day when we were dating, my husband and I had a long conversation about monogamy and why marriages fail. Why couldn't couples be honest with one another instead of lying, open instead of hiding? We vowed to be that couple. Communicate instead of keeping things buried, adventurous instead of fearful, and remember no matter what happens, love and trust one another fiercely. And what adventures we have had. I'd be lying if I said it was 17 years of smooth sailing but we sailed those storms and are still together. Through all of it we have learned a lot and have decided we have been going about what we want in the wrong way. Hence this. We are looking for a part time long term third for our marriage. We both enjoy having someone in our lives and our bed but haven't gotten it right in years of trying. Our sample size in our social circle is too small and we haven't been picky enough. So we decided to expand our horizons and head out to the wild wild world of Internet dating. I guess now would be the time to tell you a little about ourselves. I'm 38, 5’4”, 140ish, blonde and on a normal day about a 7, dressed up and working it, about an 8-8.5. My husband is 53, 6’2”, 270ish and on a normal day about a 6.5, working it 7-8. Both of us are seriously working on our health and fitness though we still love to eat. What makes us hot if I do say so myself is our open mindedness, our caring, our intelligence, and our warmth. This sounds egotistical but people seem to like us a lot more than we end up liking them. And oh yeah, we are very open and honest. We don't hold back. You'll get to know a lot more about us if you decide you want to get involved with us. So what are we looking for in a third? We actually sat in bed and made a list of things we are looking for in a person. Sounds colder than it actually is and we don't expect a perfect person, one who can hit all of the bullet points. But you should be able to hit a lot of them. And what are these traits? Glad you asked. In no particular order, here they are: Have a modern phone and be savvy in the way of modern communication. We both work full time but communicate with one another a lot through our day. We want someone who can communicate with both of us, even when we are not face to face. You would think this would be a given in this day and age but sadly, it's not. Male. More on this as the list goes on. Age 30-40. Single Slightly nerdish and knowledgeable about technology and pop culture. Not afraid of knowing about TV, movies, and books. Can carry a conversation about a wide range of subjects. Clean. Good hygiene a must. Sadly you would think is would be a given but again it's not. No drugs. Social drinking and smoking is fine. We do and those things shouldn't bother you even if you don't partake. Clean bill of health. We will provide written proof of our health and expect the same. Good communicator. You have to be able to express your wants and desires. We certainly will be exploring a lot together and you must be willing to carry your share of that load. Bisexualish. Can't be afraid of male to male contact but should expect it and be willing to explore and enjoy it. This is a threesome not a two and two some. Again this is a threesome. You have to want and like being with the two of us equally. If you come into this thinking you are gonna woo me or him out of our marriage to run away with you, you are deluding yourself. Not gonna happen. We desire a threesome and it's hard work. So expect that. Okay with displays of affection in all areas, public and non. We are a very affectionate, touchy-feely couple. No we are not going to be making out in the middle of IKEA but kissing and hand holding and other displays of affection will occur. And behind closed doors, all kinds of touching is encouraged. Must have time for dating. We are going into this thinking long term. This is not just a sex thing, one night and then done. We don't want that and neither should you. We are not Mormons but no one night stand thinking. You should have time and expect to go out on a few dates to get to know us before being invited into our bed. And even after you spend a night romping with us, dating will still be a part of our lives. Good sense of humor. We laugh a lot and have wicked senses of humor. No holds barred on this. Lastly, should be an optimist. Have a good outlook on life. Would we put up this ad if we didn't at least hope for the best? eacorts near me,body rub escorts,rscort alligator,male escorts columbus ohio,boston adult cityvibe ts,san francisco transexual escorts,illinois skip the games,female escort service near me,albany shemale escorts,trans escorts okc